don’t feel guilty for not being able to handle everything, for needing a break. you need to look after yourself, too. self care is not selfish.
don’t be someone’s sometimes; don’t let yourself be with someone only when it’s convenient for them
things to be happy about:
- finding a new favorite song
- taking a hot bath when you’re really cold
- finishing a good book
- having sex with someone you really love
- falling asleep at the beach
- sunscreen on a babies nose
- getting into a freshly made bed
- coming home after a long vacation
- watching the people you love most laugh
- painting your nails
- hot cups of tea when it’s raining
- coming home after a long day
- waking up and stretching
i hope i confuse you and you think about me a lot
theres nothing i hate more than open ended plans like when you talked about doing something with someone but you never officially set it up. is this real like should i request off work……please…. i need structure or ill die